Take A Chance ... No Regrets

I like to think that the New York Times knows what they're talking about. As one of the most respected newspapers in the nation, when they report on something, you can trust that the journalists have done their homework. So, when my sister sent me the link to a recent study published in the NY Times about regret, I believe that they are right on.

Last week, NY Times reporter Tara Parker-Pope reported that "the most common regret among American adults involves a lost romantic opportunity." When the adults in the study were asked to describe a memorable regret, the most common answer involved that person who got away .. the one they didn't give a chance. And now, years later, they regret it.

I find this really sad. I'm happy this is not a regret of mine ... not at all, actually. Maybe because I've been blessed (or cursed) with an extreme outgoing personality that allows me to express everything I'm feeling. Or maybe it's the fact that I know all to well how life can end at any time. Whatever the reason, I'm glad I always tell someone how I feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking chances. Yeah, you could get hurt, but it's better to be hurt, get over it and know that you took a risk, then to still be thinking about "what ifs" ten years down the road. And who knows, maybe it'll work out and you'll be happy ... what a concept.

There are very few people in your lifetime that are going to get under your skin, challenge and inspire you ... and make you truly happy. When you care, let it be known. Don't walk away from someone who makes you smile for no reason. If you care enough to grin like a fool in public, then you shouldn't have any problem saying, "Hey, I want you."

So, women ... don't grow old with your three cats because you never took a chance on someone (one cat is alright though, as long as that animal knows he/she has to share you). And men, don't be that guy in his 50's who no one wants to sit next to at the bar because all you talk about is the woman who got away.

Y'all got it? Good.