How To "Get It In The Bag."

You know what I'm talking about. Sometimes you play your cards just right. The guy falls for you and you tell your friends, with that half determined-half sexy look on your face, "I've got it in the bag." To put it simply, this feeling rocks. Here's how to get there:

1. Some people are unforgettable. Be one of them. If you're like every other girl in his life, that's exactly who you'll be … just another girl.

2. You might have amazing boobs, a great ass or legs for days. That's good, but guess what … so do millions of other girls. It all comes down to personality and confidence babe. Let your personality hang out instead of your boobs. Walk into the bar you both hang out at like you own the place. Flash a smile that would catch the President's attention. You get the idea.

3. Be yourself around him. So, you color coordinate the items in your fridge. You dance a little bit while waiting on the subway platform. Your conversations with your cat always help you make important decisions. Whatever it is … don't hide it. Men love that shit. It makes you different. They're now intrigued.

4. Rely on face to face interaction. Don't text. When you text, you may be interrupting his day, waking him from a nap, etc. Men don't desire that, and you don't want to be an interruption. Be the girl whose arm he could reach out and touch each time he communicates with you. Soon he'll be texting your ass, making plans to see you. (Now it's appropriate to respond … and actually calling would be good too.) And, if you have a drunk text habit (we've all been there) don't take his number, or don't save it in your phone. No number, no temptation, no texting.

5. To get something going, face to face is a good idea. Pelvis to pelvis … not such a good idea. If you really want to have it all in the bag, don't sleep with him right away. I know, it's hard … you really want to … you're both in a bar bathroom that's actually pretty clean. Too bad, don't have sex with him. Hold out as long as you can. It's been said that, "Women fall fast, men fall hard." It's true and it takes men longer to fall for you. You know they want to sleep with you, but in the mean time, let them get to know that awesome personality I've been talking about. Trust me, this works. As he gets to know you, he'll want to sleep with you even more - not just because you're hot, but because he truly appreciates who you are.

By following these five simple suggestions, you'll hook him. And, if it's not going in that direction, you'll be able to tell. Then it's time to bag another man.