Most women in this world, at one time or another, have uttered the phrase: "I'm so much better than her." And I know we all heard it in Sunday school, but I'm going to repeat it ... no one is better than anyone else. Yes, this applies to that girl who's after your man and the one who just received the promotion over you at work.
What you are is different. Don't roll your eyes at that girl and compare who is prettier or smarter, just remind yourself that you are different. You are special. If it's meant to be, the person, or people, who you want to realize your specialness ... will!
But if you fall into the "I'm better than you" trap, then you are giving into your insecurities. You're acting like those mean girls who didn't think you were good enough to jump rope with them at recess.
And trust me, men are not attracted to a woman who thinks she is better than the other four million women in New York City. But, they will notice someone who is different and special in their own way. It's time to stop comparing yourself to everyone around you.
Resist the temptation to roll your eyes at the woman flirting with the guy who's been on your mind. Be different. Ask her to jump rope with you. Well, not literally. Unless you keep a jump rope in your purse ... then go for it.
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